The Gifts We Are Given

Dear Reader,

One of my deeply held beliefs is that each of us is endowed by our Creator with certain gifts. These may be gifts of music, humor, intelligence, creativity, compassion, understanding, or countless other abilities.

I also believe we have a responsibility to discover these gifts, develop them, and find meaningful ways to apply them throughout our lives.

I bring this up because today, November 7, marks the birthday of Marie Curie, born in 1867. In reflecting upon her life, I came across a quotation that I find particularly profound.

"We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained."

— Marie Curie, letter to her brother Joseph, March 18, 1894

The phrase "at whatever cost" gives her statement particular force.

What makes these words especially meaningful is that Curie wrote them long before achieving fame or receiving worldwide recognition for her scientific discoveries.

She was still a young woman pursuing her education, facing financial difficulties, and struggling to establish her place in the world.

Yet her words reveal something extraordinary. She believed she possessed a gift worth developing, even before the world had recognized it.

She did not wait for success to believe in her abilities. She believed in them first and persevered.

I believe there is a spiritual lesson here that deserves our attention.

When God, our Creator, brought us into existence, He endowed each of us with gifts and abilities. I believe it is part of our life's purpose to discover those gifts, develop them, and use them not only for our own benefit but also for the benefit of others.

There are four thoughts I would like to share.

1. Life's Difficulties Do Not Cancel Our Purpose

Earlier in her letter, Curie wrote:

"Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that?"

She acknowledged life's hardships without allowing them to define her future.

Through my years in recovery, I have come to understand something similar.

I cannot always change what life places before me, but I can choose how I respond to it.

Difficulties do not necessarily mean I have lost my way. In fact, some of my most challenging experiences have become opportunities through which I discovered and developed gifts I did not know I possessed.

Sometimes it is through adversity that we discover our capacity for patience, compassion, courage, and understanding.

Life's challenges need not diminish our purpose. They may help us discover it.

2. Our Gifts Are Meant to Be Discovered and Exercised

I have also found that when I acknowledge God, my Higher Power, as the source of my gifts, I become more aware of my responsibility to use them wisely.

Recognizing a power greater than myself helps me approach my abilities with gratitude rather than pride. It reminds me that I need not depend entirely upon my own strength.

I am reminded of Doctrine and Covenants 46:11–12:

"For all have not every gift given unto them; for there are many gifts, and to every man is given a gift by the Spirit of God."

The passage goes on to explain that these gifts are given so that all may benefit.

Consider the importance of that thought.

Our gifts are not given merely for personal advancement. They are also opportunities to enrich the lives of others.

A person who possesses the gift of music may bring comfort to someone experiencing sorrow.

Someone gifted with patience may help another person struggling with fear.

A person who has experienced hardship may discover the gift of understanding someone facing a similar difficulty.

We need not possess extraordinary talents to make an extraordinary difference in another person's life.

3. Confidence Is Not the Same as Self-Importance

Curie encourages us to have confidence in ourselves.

From a spiritual perspective, I believe we should distinguish between thinking we are better than others and recognizing that we have something worthwhile to contribute.

Humility does not require us to deny our abilities.

In fact, denying our gifts may prevent us from fulfilling the very purpose for which they were given.

There is nothing prideful about recognizing a gift when we do so with gratitude and a willingness to share it.

We can acknowledge our abilities with thankfulness, develop them through perseverance, and exercise them with compassion.

That is confidence grounded in humility.

And I believe genuine humility allows us to recognize that others possess gifts we may not have.

We are not all gifted in the same way, nor are we intended to be.

Perhaps that is part of the wisdom of God's creation. We are given different abilities so that we may learn to depend upon, encourage, and strengthen one another.

4. The Greatest Fulfillment of a Gift May Be Found in Service

I am reminded of Matthew 25:14–30, the parable of the talents.

The servants were entrusted with different amounts, but each was expected to make something of what had been received.

The lesson, as I understand it, is not that everyone must accomplish extraordinary things.

It is that we have a responsibility to make meaningful use of what we have been given.

Another scripture brings this thought into even greater focus.

In 1 Peter 4:10, we read:

"As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God."

To me, this is where personal ability becomes spiritual responsibility.

A gift reaches beyond ourselves when it is used to lift another human being.

Through my years of volunteering and serving others, I have discovered that service does not always require a special talent or remarkable ability.

Sometimes the greatest gift we can offer is simply our presence, our willingness to listen, or a hand extended to someone who is struggling.

And I have learned something else.

When we share our gifts with others, we often discover that we have received something in return.

We grow in compassion, understanding, gratitude, and love.

One Final Thought

Marie Curie's words remind us that we must believe we have been gifted for something and possess the perseverance to develop that gift.

My faith adds another dimension to her observation.

I believe our gifts come from God, but what we choose to do with them is an expression of our agency.

We may develop them, neglect them, keep them to ourselves, or share them with others.

The choice is ours.

And in that choice, I believe, we begin to discover something of our purpose.

God gives us gifts, life provides opportunities to develop them, and love gives us a reason to use them.

What if our purpose in life is not simply to discover what God has given us, but to discover whose life might be made better because we chose to use it?

That, my friends, is where I believe a gift becomes an expression of divine love.

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The Peace We Carry Into the World

 

Peace does not begin when the world changes. It begins when we change how we meet the world.

Dear Reader, 

A friend recently shared a quotation from Marianne Williamson that caused me to reflect upon the nature of peace and our responsibility for finding it.

“As difficult as it can be to find genuine inner calm, it is the key to creating peace in the world as we know it. The world will not change until we do, and there is nothing the world can deliver to us that will give us the peace we crave. Peace comes not from the world, but from God.”

— Marianne Williamson, Everyday Grace

I find this quotation meaningful, particularly its suggestion that lasting peace cannot be obtained from the world around us.

Yet one statement invites further consideration: Peace comes not from the world, but from God.

As much as I believe in God, our Heavenly Father, as an infinite source of love and compassion, I wonder whether this statement, standing alone, gives sufficient recognition to our human agency.

If God is the source of peace, what responsibility do we have for cultivating that peace within ourselves and expressing it in the world around us?

I believe God has given us not only the capacity to receive divine love, but also the freedom to recognize it, nurture it, and share it with others.

In that understanding, peace is both a gift and a responsibility.

Learning to Meet Life as It Is

Over the years, particularly through my journey in recovery, I have spent considerable time learning about faith, acceptance, and the spiritual principles that help us live with greater serenity.

One of the most important lessons has been recognizing how often we make our happiness dependent upon something outside ourselves.

We tell ourselves that we will find peace when a problem is resolved, when another person changes, when our circumstances improve, or when life finally unfolds according to our expectations.

Yet life seldom accommodates those demands.

There will always be uncertainty, disappointment, sorrow, and circumstances beyond our control.

If our peace depends upon the absence of difficulties, we may spend a lifetime waiting for something that never arrives.

Peace does not require a perfect world.

It requires a willingness to live within an imperfect one without allowing its difficulties to govern our hearts.

Acceptance Is Not Surrendering Our Responsibility

Another important lesson from recovery is that serenity cannot be obtained by attempting to control other people or circumstances.

The more we struggle to control the people, places, and things around us, the more our peace often slips away.

The Serenity Prayer offers a different approach.

It asks God for the serenity to accept what we cannot change, the courage to change what we can, and the wisdom to recognize the difference.

Notice what the prayer does not ask.

It does not ask God to rearrange the world according to our wishes.

Instead, it invites us to understand what is ours to change and what we must release.

Acceptance is not defeat, nor is it an excuse for inaction.

It is the beginning of freedom from the exhausting belief that everything must happen according to our expectations.

Recovery did not teach me how to control life. It taught me how to participate in life without needing to control its outcome.

And in that freedom, I have discovered a deeper understanding of peace.

Faith and the Presence of God

I have also come to appreciate the quiet assurance that we are not alone in our experiences.

I believe that within the deepest reaches of our hearts and souls, we carry something of the divine nature of the God who created us.

A God of infinite love, compassion, and understanding.

Faith, for me, is not the certainty that everything will turn out as I wish. It is the trust that even when I cannot understand what is happening, God's love remains present.

Like the sheltering wings described throughout scripture, that love offers reassurance when life becomes uncertain.

It does not promise that difficulties will disappear.

It reminds us that we need not face them alone.

Jesus Christ understood the difficulties of mortal life. He experienced sorrow, rejection, suffering, and the uncertainty of those around Him.

Yet He offered His disciples a remarkable promise:

“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you.” — John 14:27

Christ did not promise a world without suffering.

He offered a peace that could endure in the midst of it.

This distinction is important.

Peace does not mean that we will never experience fear, grief, anger, or uncertainty. These emotions are part of being human.

Rather, peace allows us to experience life's difficulties without surrendering the direction of our lives to them.

We may not always be able to choose our circumstances, but we retain the ability to choose how we respond.

And often, it is in that choice that our faith becomes visible.

Peace Is Love Expressed Through Action

There is another dimension to this understanding that I believe deserves our attention.

Must we first discover peace within ourselves before we can offer it to others?

Or might we discover God's peace through the very act of loving and serving another human being?

I have come to believe that these experiences are inseparable.

Consider the mortal ministry of Jesus Christ.

He did not withdraw from a troubled world in search of personal tranquility.

He entered that world.

He comforted those who were frightened, lifted those who had fallen, forgave those who had sinned, and reached toward those whom others had forgotten.

His peace was not passive.

It was love expressed through action.

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus taught:

“Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.” — Matthew 5:9

Notice that He spoke of peacemakers, not simply those who possess peace.

Perhaps this is an invitation to recognize that the peace God offers us is not intended to remain within us.

It is meant to find expression in the way we treat one another.

A listening ear, a forgiving heart, a helping hand, or a moment of compassion may accomplish more than we realize.

We do not always need to solve another person's problems.

Sometimes our greatest contribution is simply to walk beside someone who is struggling, allowing that person to discover the courage and strength already within.

In helping another person find peace, we may discover a deeper peace within ourselves.

And in that moment, service becomes more than something we do.

It becomes an expression of who we are.

When God's Spirit Breathes New Life

Recently, while studying the prophet Ezekiel, I was particularly moved by his vision of the valley of dry bones.

In Ezekiel 37, the prophet sees a valley filled with bones, dry and seemingly without hope of life.

Yet through the breath of God's Spirit, those bones are brought together and restored to life.

The vision speaks of the restoration of the house of Israel, a people who believed their hope had been lost.

But I also find a personal spiritual lesson within that powerful image.

There are times when our own lives may seem like that valley.

Times when hope appears distant, when fear overwhelms us, or when the burdens of life leave us spiritually exhausted.

Yet the breath of divine love can awaken something within us.

Hope can return.

Faith can be renewed.

And a life that once seemed empty can again find meaning and purpose.

For me, the beauty of this image is not simply that life is restored, but that restored life has a purpose.

We are not renewed merely to exist.

We are renewed to love, to serve, and to participate in the lives of others.

The Book of Mormon offers a beautiful expression of this principle.

King Benjamin taught:

“When ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.” — Mosiah 2:17

Here, I believe, we begin to understand the relationship between divine peace and human agency.

God offers love.

We choose how to express that love.

And through that expression, peace becomes something greater than an inward feeling.

It becomes a living influence in the world.

The Peace We Leave Behind

In the end, I have come to believe that peace is neither entirely a gift we passively receive nor something we can manufacture through our own efforts.

It grows through our relationship with God, through acceptance of life's circumstances, and through our willingness to act with love and compassion.

We cannot change the whole world.

We cannot remove every sorrow, prevent every disappointment, or eliminate the fears that others carry.

But we can make a difference in the world experienced by someone who encounters our kindness.

We can listen without judgment.

We can forgive without demanding something in return.

We can offer encouragement without attempting to control another person's journey.

We can extend a hand without insisting that someone take it.

And we can walk beside another person, trusting that each of us has a journey to fulfill.

Perhaps the greatest evidence of God's peace within us is not how calm we feel when life is comfortable, but how lovingly we respond when life becomes difficult.

I do not believe we must wait until we have achieved perfect inner peace before reaching out to others.

Sometimes it is through reaching out that we discover the peace we have been seeking.

God may be the source of peace, but we have been given the agency to become its expression.

And perhaps that is one of the greatest purposes of our mortal journey: to recognize the love of God within us and allow that love to become visible in the world around us.

One day at a time. One act of kindness at a time. One soul at a time.

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When Fear Leaves Us Standing Still

Faith, Charity, and the Next Best Thing

Dear Reader,

Have you ever awakened in the morning with a feeling of fear or uncertainty so overwhelming that you simply did not know what to do next?

I have.

Sometimes our minds take us into a future that has not yet arrived. We imagine what might happen, what could go wrong, and how we might respond to circumstances beyond our control.

Before long, we find ourselves standing still, almost paralyzed by possibilities that exist only in our thoughts.

Today, I had a conversation with a dear friend who is facing surgery.

He was struggling with fear. His mind was racing ahead, imagining one possible outcome after another. Each possibility seemed to create another reason to worry.

As I listened, I realized something.

I could not remove his fear. I could not guarantee the outcome of his surgery. Nor could I promise that everything would happen exactly as he hoped.

But I could share something from my own experience.

I asked him to consider doing the next best thing.

Make your bed.

Find something to eat.

Take a shower.

Begin your day.

These might seem like insignificant actions when facing something as serious as surgery. Yet sometimes the smallest actions help us move forward when our thoughts have left us standing still.

I explained that there are mornings when I follow this same practice.

I have always maintained a certain order to my day. Making my bed, eating breakfast, and taking care of myself were familiar routines long before I entered recovery.

But Alcoholics Anonymous helped me understand something deeper about those ordinary actions.

They were not simply habits. They could become a way of moving forward when fear, uncertainty, or discouragement threatened to hold me still.

Recovery taught me that I did not have to feel better before I could begin doing better.

Sometimes the action must come first, and the courage follows.

In Alcoholics Anonymous, we often hear the words, "One day at a time."

Over the years, I have come to appreciate that sometimes even one day seems too large.

Sometimes all we can manage is one moment, one decision, or one small act.

And that is enough to begin.

I do not always wake up feeling courageous, confident, or certain about the day ahead. But I have learned that I do not need to resolve every uncertainty before beginning my day.

I only need to take the next best step.

Recently, I was reflecting on two spiritual teachings.

The first comes from Lamentations 3:25:

"The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him."

The second comes from Elder Gérald Caussé, who reminds us of the importance of caring for individual souls and helping them connect with the Savior.

Together, these teachings suggest something meaningful to me.

Waiting upon the Lord does not necessarily mean remaining inactive.

We can wait with patience while continuing to live, serve, pray, and take responsibility for the things within our ability.

Faith is not always about knowing what will happen next. Sometimes it is about trusting God enough to take another step without knowing where that step may lead.

And when we encounter someone who is struggling, perhaps our greatest act of charity is not to remove every obstacle from their path, but to help them recognize that they still have the ability to take another step.

I have spent much of my life volunteering and helping others.

Along the way, I have learned an important lesson.

Helping someone does not mean taking responsibility for their entire journey.

We can offer encouragement without directing their lives.

We can offer friendship without demanding change.

We can offer a hand without insisting that someone take it.

And sometimes we can simply share the small practices that have helped us through our own difficult mornings.

My friend must face his own uncertainties. I cannot face them for him.

But I can walk beside him.

I can listen.

I can remind him that he does not have to live through tomorrow's possibilities today.

And I can remind myself of that same truth.

Faith does not always remove fear.

Sometimes faith gives us the courage to move forward while fear is still present.

So, dear reader, if you find yourself overwhelmed by uncertainty today, consider this:

You do not have to solve tomorrow's problems this morning.

You do not have to know how everything will turn out.

You need only ask yourself:

What is the next best thing I can do?

And then, with whatever faith and courage you have available, do that one thing.

Tomorrow will have its own opportunities and challenges.

For now, let us begin with today.

And if you need a companion along the way, remember that none of us was meant to make this journey entirely alone.

Come walk with me.

A Diamond, a Carrot, and a Lesson in Life

Dear Reader,

While reviewing my daily recovery readings this morning, I came across a quotation by James Thurber that caught my attention.

“Seeing is deceiving. It’s eating that’s believing.” — James Thurber

The quotation puzzled me at first, so I decided to explore its origin. What I discovered gave me something to think about.

The quotation comes from Further Fables for Our Time (1956), written by James Thurber (1894–1961), an American humorist, cartoonist, and author.

The fable features three animals: a magpie, a crow, and a rabbit.

• The magpie discovers a valuable ring containing a fourteen-carat diamond.

• The crow and rabbit mistake the word "carat" for "carrot."

• When they discover that the treasure is a diamond rather than something edible, they lose interest.

The crow declares, “Seeing is deceiving. It's eating that's believing.”

The crow and rabbit see little value in a ring they cannot eat, while the magpie treasures its beauty and sparkle.

Each animal judges the treasure according to its own desires and perceived needs.

But here is an interesting question: Which animal is right?

The magpie values the diamond. The rabbit values carrots. The crow values something he can eat.

Perhaps none of them is wrong. Each sees value through the circumstances of its own life.

This leads me to ask:

How often do we judge the world by our own desires and perceived needs, overlooking opportunities to learn and grow?

And how often do we assume that what is valuable to us must be equally valuable to someone else?

Thurber's humorous fable reminds me that appearances can be deceiving and that personal experience often influences what we consider important.

What one person treasures, another may find worthless.

But there is another lesson here.

Recognizing something as valuable is not the same as allowing it to influence how we live.

This brings to mind James 2:17:

“So too, faith by itself, if it does not result in action, is dead."

We may recognize goodness in others. We may believe in the importance of kindness, compassion, forgiveness, and faith. But recognizing these qualities and believing in their value is only a beginning.

Their deeper meaning becomes apparent when we begin practicing them in our own lives.

The same principle applies to recovery.

We may understand recovery and recognize its value in the lives of others, but its transforming power becomes personal when we begin to experience it ourselves.

Reading the Big Book, attending meetings, and listening to others can inform and encourage us. These are important parts of the journey.

Yet real transformation takes place as we carry the principles beyond the meeting room and put them into practice in our daily lives.

It is one thing to understand forgiveness and another to forgive.

It is one thing to admire humility and another to practice it.

It is one thing to believe in helping others and another to extend a hand when someone needs help.

And sometimes, it is equally important to recognize that what another person needs or values may be different from what we would choose for ourselves.

We can offer encouragement, understanding, and companionship without insisting that others see the world through our eyes.

We may recognize wisdom in the words of others, but its deeper meaning often becomes clear only when we begin to live it.

Experience has a way of teaching what observation alone cannot.

And so, a humorous little fable about a diamond and a carrot has reminded me of something important:

The value of life is not found only in what we see, what we possess, or even what we believe. It is also found in how we live, how we treat others, and what we are willing to learn along the way.

And you, dear reader, what lesson do you find in Thurber's words?

I would welcome your thoughts in the comments below.

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Come Walk With Me

Dear Reader,

This morning, I was reflecting on several quotations about acceptance, love, faith, and living one day at a time. Although each approached life from a different perspective, I began to recognize a common message.

We cannot change yesterday, nor can we control tomorrow. But we can choose how we live today.

As I considered these thoughts, I found myself returning to a simple understanding:

I find peace within myself as I stretch out a hand to others and allow them to rise and walk with me.

There is an important distinction between helping someone rise and attempting to make them rise.

I can extend my hand, but the other person must choose to take it. I can offer encouragement, friendship, and support, but I cannot live another person's life or make their decisions.

Sometimes, in our desire to help, we forget this distinction. We begin to believe that loving someone means solving their problems, correcting their mistakes, or directing their journey.

But is that really love?

The Apostle Paul taught in Galatians 6:2:

"Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ."

And in the Book of Mormon, Mosiah 18:8 speaks of being:

"...willing to bear one another's burdens, that they may be light."

Neither scripture tells us to take ownership of another person's life. Rather, both invite us to share life's burdens with compassion and understanding.

Over my years in Alcoholics Anonymous, I have learned that recovery is more than attending meetings or maintaining sobriety. It is learning a different way of living.

The Twelfth Step reminds us of the importance of carrying the message to others and practicing spiritual principles in all our affairs.

In helping another person, we often discover that we ourselves are being helped.

Yet there is another lesson I continue to learn.

I can extend my hand without carrying the entire weight of the person who takes it.

This is not indifference. It is an acknowledgment that each of us has our own journey, our own lessons to learn, and our own relationship with God.

I have come to understand that peace is not something I find by looking only within myself. It grows when I reach out to another person, help them find their footing, and allow them to rise and walk beside me.

I cannot walk their journey for them, but neither must they walk alone.

And I must remember that I, too, need rest, encouragement, friendship, and the occasional hand extended in my direction.

Perhaps this is one of the great lessons of faith and recovery: We are not called to control one another. We are called to love one another.

We need not have all the answers. We need not repair every broken circumstance. Sometimes, simply being present is enough.

I believe that when we reach out in love, something happens within us as well.

The hand we extend to lift another may also be the hand through which God lifts us.

So, my invitation today is a simple one.

Come walk with me.

Not because I know the way better than you.

Not because I have all the answers.

But because the journey may become a little lighter when we walk together.

With love and gratitude,

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Shape My Soul dear Lord

From Asking God to Fix My Life to Asking Him to Shape My Soul

Inspired by Sister Tamara W. Runia's talk, “The Sculpting of Our Souls”

Dear Reader,

Many years ago, I remember damaging a vehicle and, in my distress, asking God to fix it before I returned home.

Imagine that! I had made a mistake, and I wanted God to make the consequences disappear.

Looking back, I can smile at that younger version of myself. My faith was genuine, but my understanding of God's purpose in my life was limited. I believed that if I prayed sincerely enough, God might intervene and make everything right.

Today, after many years of living, learning, making mistakes, experiencing loss, and discovering the blessings of recovery and faith, my prayers have changed.

I no longer look to God simply to fix the problems I encounter. Instead, I ask for His wisdom, guidance, and inspiration to help me use the agency He has given me. I seek solutions that recognize not only my own needs but also the needs and well-being of everyone involved.

Recently, I read a message by Sister Tamara W. Runia of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints entitled “The Sculpting of Our Souls.” Her message awakened within me a deeper understanding of this change in my spiritual journey.

Sister Runia shares the story of a student struggling to sculpt a likeness of himself from clay. Despite his determination and effort, he cannot achieve the result he envisions. Eventually, he humbles himself and invites his instructor to help.

Under the hands of the master, the clay begins to take on a beauty and expression the student could not have achieved alone.

What a remarkable comparison to our own lives!

We spend much of our lives believing that our talents, education, experience, determination, and hard work will enable us to create the life we imagine.

Yet life seldom follows our carefully prepared designs.

We encounter disappointments, unexpected changes, broken relationships, illness, and losses we cannot repair. Our best efforts sometimes seem insufficient.

And it is here that I believe the Master Sculptor enters our lives—not necessarily to restore the design we once imagined, but to help us discover something we had never envisioned.

Through God and His Son, Jesus Christ, we are offered a foundation upon which to build, strength beyond our own understanding, and guidance toward possibilities we might otherwise never recognize.

This does not mean our difficulties disappear. Nor does it mean we surrender responsibility for the choices we make.

Quite the opposite.

Our faith invites us to become active participants in our own spiritual growth.

I have learned something similar through the principles of recovery. There is a profound difference between surrendering responsibility and surrendering the illusion that we can control everything.

In the Sixth and Seventh Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, we become willing to allow God to help remove those shortcomings that limit our spiritual growth.

We begin to understand that humility is not weakness. It is an invitation to receive guidance beyond our own abilities.

And as we grow, something beautiful can happen.

We become more patient, more compassionate, more willing to listen, and less inclined to judge the journeys of others.

I am also learning that while God may be sculpting my soul, He has not appointed me to sculpt the souls of others.

I can offer encouragement, share my experience, and extend a helping hand. But I must respect the agency of those around me.

Recently, someone I care about deeply began making choices about his life that differed from what I believed would be best for him. My first instinct was to offer guidance, perhaps even to persuade him to reconsider.

But I came to recognize that his journey belongs to him, just as mine belongs to me.

I could continue trying to direct his choices, or I could step back, respect his agency, and remain available as a friend.

I chose friendship.

Now, as he faces a difficult personal challenge, I have offered to be there for him if he needs me. My concern for his well-being does not depend upon whether he follows my advice.

That realization has brought me a measure of peace.

Sometimes love means stepping back and allowing another person to make decisions we may not understand or agree with.

And sometimes love means stepping forward, quietly offering to walk beside that person through a difficult experience.

Perhaps one of the greatest expressions of faith is learning when to do each.

Looking back across my own years, I can see that the life I am living today is not the life I imagined in my youth.

There have been painful experiences I would never have chosen. There have also been unexpected blessings, relationships, opportunities to serve, and spiritual discoveries I could never have anticipated.

I cannot claim to understand the purpose of every experience.

But I have come to believe that, through faith in Jesus Christ, even our most difficult experiences can become opportunities for greater understanding, compassion, and love.

The Master Sculptor has not finished His work.

And I am grateful that He continues to guide my hands, my heart, and my choices.

My prayer today is no longer simply, “Father, please fix what I have broken.”

It is, “Father, help me see what I cannot yet see. Guide me to use my agency wisely, to act with compassion, and to become the person You know I am capable of being.”

Dear Reader, perhaps the beauty of our lives is not found in how perfectly we have followed our original plans, but in our willingness to discover, through God's guidance, a design more meaningful than anything we could have imagined.

We are all works in progress.

And in the hands of the Master Sculptor, there is always the possibility of becoming.

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The Simplicity of Believing

Dear Reader,

Rabindranath Tagore is often credited with a profound observation:

“It is very simple to be happy, but it is very difficult to be simple.”

These words brought to mind a beautiful song from 1953, I Believe, made famous by Frankie Laine.

The song speaks of finding reasons to believe in the ordinary wonders of life: the cry of a newborn child, the touch of a leaf, and the beauty of the sky.

Consider a young father holding his newborn child. In that quiet moment, the demands of the world seem to disappear. There is no need for wealth, recognition, or achievement. There is simply a child, a loving embrace, and the wonder of a new life.

Could happiness really be that simple?

I have spent much of my life discovering how easily we complicate our existence. We pursue what we believe will make us happy, often overlooking the blessings already surrounding us.

Through my years in recovery, I have learned that peace frequently begins with acceptance. Through my growing faith in Jesus Christ, I am learning that spiritual understanding does not always require complicated explanations. Sometimes it begins with humility, gratitude, and a willingness to recognize God's presence in the ordinary moments of life.

Jesus taught that we must become as little children (Matthew 18:3). I wonder whether part of that invitation is to rediscover the simplicity of trusting, loving, and believing.

Life will never be without difficulties. Yet even amid sorrow and uncertainty, there are moments of grace waiting to be recognized.

A child's first cry. A gentle breeze. The warmth of someone's hand. A quiet prayer.

These are not insignificant moments. They are reminders that happiness and faith need not always be found through searching. Sometimes they are already present, waiting for us to notice.

Perhaps the difficulty is not in finding happiness, but in learning to recognize how simply it comes to us.

As we continue our journey together, may we learn to slow down, look around, and discover the extraordinary blessings hidden within our ordinary lives.

With love, faith, and gratitude,

Steve
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An original reflection inspired by Rabindranath Tagore and I Believe

“Happiness and faith are not found in the complexity of what we seek, but in the simplicity of what we learn to see. In a child's first cry, the gentle touch of a leaf, or the wonder of an open sky, we discover that life's greatest blessings have been quietly surrounding us all along.”

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